Last semester, in the
sociology course, we highlighted that the education is one of the major
institutions in societies. Family, schools, along with other institutions play
a crucial role to increase the consciousness of learning in each society.
I would like to emphasize on the parental
involvement in their children’s education that has a very constructive
influence and a key component in their child’s success and motivation.
Parents have fundamental
roles in both: home and school, towards their children’s education.
Starting from home which is
considered as the first place where children feel secure and motivated, the
mere presence of their parents make them feel confident. Parents can benefit
from this point to create a positive home environment that will help their
children to develop and maintain positive study habits.
Some supportive home environment will
allow the child to excel and to be productive in his studies such as, set aside
a place or a corner for him far away from any kind of distractions as games,
TV, the siting room, music, and so forth. In addition, we can teach our
children to plan, organize and manage their time in order to accomplish their
tasks on time. Furthermore, parents should take into consideration their
attitudes toward school and education because it could affect in the same way
their children’s attitudes and behaviors toward them too. They should always
convey positive attitudes and reveal the great significance and importance of
learning. Parents should make a daily follow up and discuss their children’s
school day, and show them caring attitudes which in turn motivate them to
learn. They have to praise and encourage
their academic efforts. I would like to focus on a very vital point, which is;
parents should understand and reinforce the rules of the school at home.
In school, as in life, consistent support
from them is essential to enhance their children’s confidence and achievement.
To start with, they should communicate with their children’s teachers
regularly, by attending school meetings. In plus, they should share and discuss
with teachers the family problems that could have negative impact on their
children’s performance, behavior and grades. To add, there are questions that
circulate in the head of parents that couldn’t be answered unless it is asked
and shared with their children and with the teachers. Teachers have insights
that might help parents to answer those questions about the lower grades of
their child, such as: What caused our child’s poor grades? Was it a lack of
understanding? Is something bothering them in their personal life? Are they
bored by the subject matter? All these questions could be answered in
collaboration with the teacher and the child himself.
Finally, nothing helps a child succeed
like an involved parent. A parent should be a friend, a cheerleader, a teacher,
and a reinforcer in his child’s life. When students feel the support from both
home and school, then their self-confidence and their self-esteem increase.
They sense more the importance of school and of education in general.
1 comment:
It's true that parents have a big role in their children education, and we all should be aware of this, when we want to select a school for our child. The school should have similar morals, ethics and believes of the parents. Beside they should look for the better education for their children that emphasis academic and social learning.
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